Find Control In Usercontrol From Page

I am loading a control to a page dynamically with LoadControl("src to file"). In the usercontrol i have a validator and some other controls that i would like to access from my page. I canät get it to work, null pointer exception. Scenario is like this. I have a Edit.aspx page which loads the EditTemplate.ascx usercontroll. I would like to get information or find the controls in the EditTemplate from the Edit.aspx site. I have tried exposing the controls and validators as properties but how do i access them from my Edit.aspx?

Example code:
Edit.aspx, the control is later added into a
Control control = LoadControl("src to ascx");
TemplatePlaceHolder.Controls.Add(control);
EditTemplate.ascx
<asp:RequiredFieldValidator ID="RequiredFieldValidator1" runat="server" ControlToValidate="CompanyImageFile" ErrorMessage="RequiredFieldValidator"></asp:RequiredFieldValidator>
CodeBehind
public partial class EditTemplate : System.Web.UI.UserControl, IEditTemplate {
public RequiredFieldValidator Validator {
get { return this.RequiredFieldValidator1; }
set { this.RequiredFieldValidator1 = value; }
}

From the Edit.aspx site i would like to check the validators isValid property. Isvalid is set in a Save method. The save button that saves the template is located in edit.aspx, so the post in done from that page. So the question is how to get a hold of the property from the usercontrol in the edit.aspx page, where and how should this be done?