Mvc Making Delete Usercontrol Information Passing On And Off?

i am creating a generalize deleteusercontrol , my aim is that on the listing page where all the records are listed when the delete is pressed i want to display the acknowledgment on the same page up the list. I had little idea to do thatq1) first of all where will i place my deleteusercontrol(in the shared folder?). q2) on and off the deleteusercontrol as the acknowledgment will not be there all the time how would i be doing that on delete press. i don't want to pass any data in the querystring.q3)how would i be passing the records list id and listname to the general deleteusercontrol as it would be same for all the listing